I read a quote recently that really impressed me. I don’t make New year’s resolutions, but the end of the year is a perfect time for a bit of reflection. Homeschooling has finished for the year and I try to take a break from making classes and just be peaceful and restful. With this gear change comes thoughts of what I did well during the year and what I could have done better.
The quote was “Have high hopes and low expectations“.
At first glance, it may seem a little defeatist. But something that 43 years on this earth has taught me is that life is a roller coaster. Many wonderful things happen and there are many, often bitter disappointments.
I don’t think it’s life that needs to change though. I think it’s the way we look at it that needs altering. If we expect that everything will be always rosy, we are kind of like spoiled little brats who never experienced a hardship.
Have you ever visited an impoverished country or area? Do the people go about with gloomy faces? Are they angry at life… or at God? No, they have something that many of us in our wealthier society have lost and forgotten.
They have little.
When you have so little, you appreciate what you do have. And you are grateful for anything extra that comes your way. Your life is simple. You have clothing, shelter and food for today – then you have everything you need and you are thankful. You have hopes that life may improve, but you are content to live simply.
So, I’m making this quote my motto for 2020.
My hopes are high. I hope this year that all of my family are happy and have good health. I hope that my business grows and that I can make my Online Weaving School even better. I hope I get lots of time to weave and learn. I hope that my husband’s back injury may improve. I hope that we can meet all of our financial responsibilities. I hope that we can finally make our move to the country. I hope that we have a great homeschooling year. I hope that my understanding of my faith will increase. I hope that I can love and serve God better than ever before.
And I will try to expect nothing.
There is a big difference between hoping for the best and expecting the best. One makes us joyful – the other miserable. One is a freedom, the other a slavery to our own thoughts and desires.
So tell me friends, is this something that you struggle with too? (oh yes, this is a huge struggle for me!) Share your hopes in the comments below!
Until next time…
Happy Weaving!